Kailangan ko po ng tulong. Please, i really need your advice po.
Nung December 2012 po, nagkaroon ako ng "protected" anal sex (though unprotected oral sex) with a guy prostitute. Trip lang, nalasing kasi. Masakit, but honestly i liked it a bit o dahil lasing lang ako.
After 9 days, nagkaroon ako ng cough. So, nag-Tuseran lang po ako. Nawala yung cough after 7 days. Pero, sometimes i felt parang masakit ulo.
18 days after exposure, i decided to take the test sa RITM after reading your blog entries. It turned out Negative. I even took Hepa and Syphilis tests, ALL negative naman po.
5 days after HIV test, nakaramdam po ako na parang "nasusuka" na pakiramdam. Pero, nawala din after 3 days.
Ngayon po, after 40 days of exposure, na-gain ko na ulit yung dating weight ko (though mas magaan pa rin by 3 lbs). Pero, i am still feeling the unusual sensations (freezing sensation sa arms/feet) almost everyday. Napansin ko rin po na may white things na sa dila ko for 3-5 days now. Nakakaramdam din ako ng pagkahilo almost every morning pagkagising, then nawawala, then minsan sa gabi, nagkakaroon. Pabago-bago po.
I am taking vitamins everyday, Berroca, vitamin C. I am more active na rin sa mga physical activities like basketball, running.
Nag-consult po ako ng General Doctor about all what i am feeling. Pina-take nya ako ng NORGESIC FORTE. He asked me to take CBC test to check kung may virus/bacteria sa katawan ko. Makukuha ko po yung results soon.
Is this HIV? Gusto makahingi ng advice from you and from the doctors na kilala nyo. Ano pong pwede kong gawing next steps?
Ready po ako sa kahit anong results (HIV man o hindi). Ayaw ko lang malaman ng girlfriend ko, ng family ko at mga kakilala ko.
Salamat po ng marami.
Str8tguy
CONTRIBUTOR'S RESPONSE
Dear xxx,
From what you feel right now, I must say that what you feel are more of symptoms of 'anxiety' from that 'exposure'. I believe its more than being 'worried' than the manifestations of anti-retroviral syndrome.
With regards to your HIV antibody test, though its very early for it to be conclusive, its already a good indication of your status and that is negative. I will however suggest you to have it repeated after 3 months/12 weeks/84 days for it to be conclusive. Of course, no test is 100% sure but HIV antibodies will usually develop between 2-8 weeks for most people with an average of 25 days post exposure. The 12 weeks time frame is to cover some delay for previously normal healthy individuals. By 12th week, almost 99% will develop antibodies if they have been exposed.
The significance of your exposure is the "protected anal sex' which can now be considered a low risk because of protection. The oral sex is believed to have some 'theoretical risk' but for the most part, this is categorized as 'extremely low risk'. Over-all, your exposure should be considered low risk even with an HIV positive person. We are not even sure of the status of your 'partner' during that exposure. He may not have HIV at all.
From what you have stated and if you do not have any other 'risky' exposure prior to that, you are most likely HIV negative. A non-reactive test after 12 weeks/84 days/3 months is considered conclusive. Rarely, HIV antibodies may develop up to 6 months for person who have immune system problems from the very start like having cancers, on prolonged steroid treatment or you receive a post-exposure prophylactic drugs. In you do not really belong to these groups then 3 months could be enough to at least move on and leave all the worries behind completely. Of course, you have the option to have another test by 6th month since the tests are free but its not very necessary unless you have another risky exposure in between.
For now, the best thing you can do is to stop worrying, continue your supplements and healthy activities, and avoid any risky, unprotected sexual activities while waiting for your next HIV test which I believe is still negative. Try to relax and ease your mind and see if the symptoms improve since most of these symptoms are non-specific, not really pointing into any specific disease if taken as a whole. Your CBC might just come out as all within normal.They are not even suggestive of anti-retroviral syndrome in acute HIV infection. Just try not to over think but start planning to stay negative once you get your next HIV test especially that you are in a relationship with your girlfriend.
Stay safe,
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