Living with HIV in the Philippines: Email 457: To Tell or Not To Tell?

Diagnose ako na may HIV at meron akong partner, Isang beses lang namen ginawa yung inoral niya ko at inoral ko din siya tapos yung top sya pero yung pasundot sundot sa pwet pero hnd naman napasok alam naman naten na hnd naman agad agad makakapasok yun diba kasi kinikontract ko din tapos di ko naman naramdaman ang sakit. Pero kinakabahan kasi ako! wala pa akong lakas ng loob sabihin sa jowa ko yung sakit ko. At hnd naman kami nagsesex kasi hnd namen priority yun masaya na kami sa kiss lang. Ano ba dapat ang maramdaman ko?

POZZIEPINOY’S RESPONSE

Hi there.

Thank you for your email.

Accidents may happen and you never know what will happen to him, to you and your relationship. If you really love your partner, you have to tell him that you have HIV. How can you have a relationship if are not honest with him? How can your look him at him straight in the eye while you are making love when you are hiding something from him.

I know you are scared to lose him because he might push you away if you tell him the truth, but it is best to know how will react now than forever be miserable.

I hope I was able to answer your concerns. Feel free to email me again if you have other questions.

Stay healthy,

Pozziepinoy

"WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER.

NO PLHIV is alone with his or her struggle with HIV!"

-Pozziepinoy-

Want to be ASSISTED for the HIV TEST??

Check this link:

CARE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

If you have comments or questions, please click this link:

Contact Pozziepinoy