Email 527: Anxious with the HIV Result

Hi pozzie!

Can you enlighten me on this one?

Nagpatest kasi ako sa RITM 6 weeks after exposure (oral sex exposure lang) and it was non-reactive. Pero ngayon. after 4 months. napansin ko biglang pumapayat ata ako. I do not know if this is stress-induced (lack of sleep,stress) or sa maling test results. I am panicking right now...again.

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Email 523: On Oral Sex

Hello pozziepinoy. 

Im Don, so its been almost 4 months since I had sex with a man I met online. We just did oral and didn't let ourselves be exposed in each other's cum. So just this week (after 4 months of doing that), I discovered a white penile discharge. I immediately went to a doctor and they diagnosed me with a UTI. I immediately felt better after 24 hours of medication (no penile discharge). Its my second day of medication  
today and I am almost perfectly fine. Do you think that I have HIV? I saw a lot of articles in the net saying that the presence of HIV can induce UTI. Internet articles also stated that  
it is rare for young men to have UTI. I am so paranoid now. I don't want to have HIV. Thanks for the reply.

Don

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Email 412: On Oral Sex and HIV

Hi Pozziepinoy,

Before anything else, I want to say that you are really an amazing person continuing to live on. I hope I do get your fighting spirit. Anyway. Tanong ko lang, gaano kalaki yung risk...may naka oral sex ako nung dec 1 and nalasahan ko yung lumabas. I checked my mouth after and thankfully wala naman akong ulcers or sugat. I gargled povidone iodine (not brushed my mouth) pagkatapos ng encounter na yun since baka magkasugat ako if magbrubrush agad. I know there is always a risk involved and I already know the 3 month window period. Napaparanoid nanaman ako kaiisip. please help me. I was diagnosed with depression and pinapalala pa ng pagiging paranoid and hypochondriac ( isip ng isip na may sakit) ko. I know mali yung ginawa ko at sobrang nagsisi ako.

More power to you :)

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Email 407: Oral Sex and HIV

hi there good evening and thanks for having this kind of site para sa mga katulad kong positive at naghahanap ng kalinga.. anyway may tanong lng ako..

may boyfriend ako ngyn at alam po nya ung tungkol sa sakit ko at handa daw sya kung sakaling magkaroon din sya kasi talagang nagmamahalan kami pero lagi kong sinasabi sa kanya na ayokong matulad sya sa akin.. pero one time umuwi kami sa province nila, nung natutulog na kami hindi sya nakapagpigil and he sucked me.. nung nakauwi na kami sa kanya-kanyang bahay natxtx sya sa akin na may nalasahan daw syang cum ko pero konting-konti lng daw at idinura nya agad..

posible po kaya na nahawa na agad sya ng ganun? sana po matulungan nyo ako kasi hindi ko kakayanin na pati sya mahawa sa akin.. mahal na mahal ko po sya.. maraming salamat po

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Email 691: On Oral Sex

Hi Pozzie,

Please make my email confidential and private. I am paranoid and I almost fainted in the MRT due to several things that I had in mind. I had sex with a guy two weeks ago. We did not do anal, just oral. What drives me crazy is that I had a "singaw" or sore in my lower lips, I did not swallow, in short, he did not come into my mouth. 

I am just worried that I might get infected but I learned from your entry http://pozziepinoy.blogspot.com/2013/07/email-402-about-kissing.html that it has a low risk of getting infected. Also, I am not a sexually active. I had only sex (mostly orals) with four different men. But I still plan to take the test. I am nervous.

Thank you.
@D

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Email 522: Oral Sex, STD's and HIV

Gud pm. 

Mr. Pozzie ask ko lang po. Nakipag oral sex po ako sa ta0ng nakilala ko sa txt. Pagkatapos po nun. May nararamdaman po ako na kakaiba. 

My questions are; 1. Aside po sa hiv ano pong std ang makukuha sa oral sex? 2. May tumubo po na white something na kumakapit sa lalamunan ko at palaging nagkakar0on ng singaw sa mouth ko minsan feeling ko lumiit yung butas ng lalamunan ko kaya minsan nahihirapan ako makalun0k ng pagkain sign b to ng sti? 3 May gamot po b ang std? 4. May tumutobo na butlig sa groin ko pero d naman po masakit sign b 2 ng tulo? 5. What if d po magamot ang std magiging hiv ba ito? 6. Last po lagi po ak0ng inaantok at napapagod at madali ak0ng kapitan ng sakit 2lad ng sip0n at ubo yun pa ang sign ng std o hiv? 

Nagkakasakit na po ako sa kakaisip sana ma2longan u ako Thanks po

juzt20

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Email 514: Oral Sex and Throat problems

May 1, nang makipag oral sex ako sa isang lalaking nakilala ko sa mall. Pagkatap0s nun May 3 ay nagkar0on ako ng bukol sa ilalim ng tenga ko mumps daw yun. 3 days lang nawala dn agad. Next ay nagkar0on naman ako ng sore throat yung parang hirap lumun0k at may nakita ak0ng parang puti na sip0n na kumakapit sa lalamunan ko. Although nakakalun0k ako ng pagkain eh nararamdan ko pa rin ng kaunti ang sakit sa paglun0k. Mula nung mangyari yun ay nag umpisa na ako mag search sa internet about hiv and std. Dun nakita ko ang mga sympt0ms, mula nun di na ako makakain. Di na rin ako maka tulog, lagi akong pinapawisan at nawawalan ng focus sa mga gnagawa ko. Araw2x na lang pinapakiramdaman ko kung may nag bago sa katawan ko. 3 weeks na ngay0n. Yung throat ko lang problema ko n0w. Ang tan0ng ko po.

Ano kaya yung tumubo sa lalamunan ko? May tulo po ba sa lalamunan? An0ng gam0t dito? 3 weeks na 2 sympt0ms pa lang naramdaman ko. Pareho lang b ang std at hiv test? 

Thanks,

juzt2010

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Email 435: Worried Woman

Gud day pozzie. .

natatakot n ko. .im girl,and have a bf 2years ago,di ko alam panu ipapaliwanag pero walang nangyari samin pero sbhn natn muntik na,ayoko pumayag natatakot kc ako bka mbuntis ako. .so he request to have oral sex. . .he is my 1st and last experience. but natatakot ako,kaht 2years ago n yun kaht oral lng yun di ko pa dn alam kung healthy ba xa. . .nag umpisa ung worry ko ulit dahil madami n qng napapanood sa t.v. i want to be a calm at wag icpn un,pero d q maiwasan,kaht n 2years ago n yun. .oo nagkakasakit ako,pero nakakarecover aq. .ngaun na kapag meron n q nararamdaman sa sarili ko d q maiwasan mag alala matakot. . .d q n alam ang gagawn q. 

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Email 396: About HIV Transmission and HIV Test

hi pozzie pinoy.

I just want to ask if am still negative .I have 

my post exposure last year january 2012 I have anal sex with my friend (am the bottom) without  protection and last january 2013 I have oral sex without also protection ..I just had my hiv test last march 2013 and it came out negative..should I need to retest again? and also I want to ask if oral sex is too risky and mutual masturbation?

XXX

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