Email 448: Worried About Oral sex and Digital Manipulation

Hi Poxxie!!

I've been conscious about hiv. Been tested several times since 2010. The results are negative. Hepa B, VDRL are negative as well. The last hiv test was may 2013 and negative as well. 

Been practicing casual sex, however, i do make sure for safe sex and no anal sex. I preferred to be be top. I seldom give oral sex I don't like the feeling. I am the receiver of oral sex. 

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Email 447: On HIV Transmission

Hi Pozzie,

Im not sure kung tama ba na dito ako magsend ng mail ko regarding my concern, anyway here's my story, last night i engaged in an anal sex with a guy where i was the top. before we do the anal, he sucked my penis for about 1 minute then i insisted na itry namin ang anal sex, so nagcondom ako tapos first attempt na ipapasok ko na, masakit daw so dinamihan ko ang lube so sa second attempt pumasok naman, the pumping lasted for 1 minute,nilabas ko muna penis ko kasi nanlalambot. so i masturbated my penis with the condom on para magpatigas , nung ready na ulit, bigla niya sinabi na ayaw na niya kasi masakit daw so i removed the condom and started to masturbate hanggang sa magcum. eto po yung gumugulo sa isip ko, when i enter the bathroom para maghugas, nakita ko na may mga dugo yung kamay ko at penis ko, Ask ko po kung my risk ba ako since  
nagmasturbate ako ng may dugo yung kamay ko na galing sa anus niya. Hindi naman po nagbreak yung condom,.so sa madaling salita po, dinugo siya while were doing the anal sex tapos hinawakan ko yung condom na may dugo na pala tapos hinawak ko sa penis ko para magmasturbate.. please help.. maingat po ako makipag sex kaya lng may mga chance talaga na hindi maiiwasan kagaya ng ganto, Thanks.

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Email 438: Oral Sex with a Masseur

hi pozzie, 

i just engaged in an oral sex with a masseur, i haven't felt any semen in my mouth since di sya nagpalabas ng cum, but when i went home, i had canker's sore pala in my mouth, im just afraid that i might acquire hiv or any stds because of this. im soo scared right now i can't seem to sleep thinking about it. what can you advise me to do?and how much do tests for hiv usually costs? 

I'm from bacolod btw. thanks for your response pozzie, it will be very helpful.

nate

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Email 413: Had Unprotected Sex Before

I never had an HIV test ever since I had sex with men. I am 23 years old now and started sex 3 years ago. I was fucked with 2 persons (without condom), and with two individuals, one with condom and the other has not. These were all happened by intervals of months to have sex again, and it was 3 years ago.  

But then I never liked to be in bottom so I had tried to have sex with different guys where I’m on top, mostly I never use condom, and sometimes I just get an oral sex. Most probably, 2 years I’m on top until now. I really got worried about my condition and health now. So far in that course, I never had gone into really flu or illnesses whatsoever that has to do with HIV symptoms, not in particular situation that I can remember. I have fairly rashes but I guess I got it when I had couple drinks during the night and it appears after a day/s or an hours. As I remember, I really get flu once in a year, but not really after sex  
within week or weeks. Maybe I am really scared to be tested. I don’t know what to do when it resulted to positive. I know these all can’t really be my bases, but I want to know my status. I want to have a baby. I am working and Sunday is my off. If you can reach me please contact me. XXX. I am from Paco, Manila.

XXX

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Email 412: On Oral Sex and HIV

Hi Pozziepinoy,

Before anything else, I want to say that you are really an amazing person continuing to live on. I hope I do get your fighting spirit. Anyway. Tanong ko lang, gaano kalaki yung risk...may naka oral sex ako nung dec 1 and nalasahan ko yung lumabas. I checked my mouth after and thankfully wala naman akong ulcers or sugat. I gargled povidone iodine (not brushed my mouth) pagkatapos ng encounter na yun since baka magkasugat ako if magbrubrush agad. I know there is always a risk involved and I already know the 3 month window period. Napaparanoid nanaman ako kaiisip. please help me. I was diagnosed with depression and pinapalala pa ng pagiging paranoid and hypochondriac ( isip ng isip na may sakit) ko. I know mali yung ginawa ko at sobrang nagsisi ako.

More power to you :)

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Email 713: Do I Have HIV?

Thank you for this blog. I am really happy that you are really hands on for all the questions about . Sana paunlakan mo din lahat ng mga tanong ko about this matter.

Heres my story, just call me Mr. Confused. I am 20 a fresh grad. Meron akong karelasyon na lalake. We’ve been together for almost 1 year na din. Naging kame November last year. So probably magcecelebrate na kame ng 1st anniv namen next month. We’ve been practicing safe sex the entire relationship pero one time, dala nadin siguro ng sobrang love namen sa isat isa. We did it without protection, not sure of the exact date, pero probably May or June yun this year. At once lang po yun nangyare yung unprotected sex at din namen inulet.

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Email 704: Worried of Having HIV

Hi pozziepinoy, 

I am truly grateful I found ur blog. Its very informative. So here goes my story: I have been scared to death for a long time now about me being hiv +. 

I was in a long term relationship. It lasted for five years. All along i thought we were monogamous. It was just recently i learned he had a lot of girls during our relationship. :'( it's really sad. Not only was i hurt emotionally but now im also worried if i got STDs or HIV from his doings. 

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Email 646: Had an Encounter with a PLHIV

Call me Mr. X. it was JUNE of this year I had contact with sogmebody.. nakilala ko lang po sya sa bus. tinanung ko sya kung my sakit sya?. ang sabi nya ehh. wala my napansin akong rashes sa balat nya ang sabi nya ehh. "skin asthma" daw un.. then nagkarun kami ng quikee contact pero "insertive fellatio" lang ung nangyari. mga couple of minutes lang yung contact.. after noon. we exchange no. 

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Email 635: What Can I Do?

Hi Pozziepinoy.

Tawagin nyo na lang po akung si JayAr. Nagkarun po ako ng unprotected insertive fellatio sa isang HIV positive mayron po akong nakitang rashes sa balat nya. According sa research maliit ang chance na mgkarun ako ng hiv. ngpatest na po ako after 2 months and its negative. sana after ng 5 months negative parin po.. anu po bang yung action ko para maging negative ako ayokong mag antay ng walang ginagawa. i appreciate your responce..

tnx 
JayAr

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Email 629: Are my HIV Tests Conclusive?

Good day!

pozzie let me tell to you my story. last week of october 2012 i had an unprotected sex with this guy then december 2012 i take my 1st hiv test non reactive naman siya tapos january to february we had sex again but now protected sex lahat. then may 2013 nag take ulit ako ng hiv test and non reactive ulit ang result my question is...

1. conclusive na ba ung hiv test ko?
2. may ilang symptoms ako na naramdaman like chill, sorethroat, backpain  
pero paminsan minsan lang. is it a sign that im hiv positive?
3. yung last protected sex ko is february pero i noticed some blood on my  
anus when i wiped it pero a day after wala na. is it possible that im  
infected now with hiv with regards on that incidence?
4. nag pa test yung partner ko negative nman siya. pwede bang ako magkaroon  
ng hiv tapos siya wala kahit siya lang yung partner ko eversince?
5. panu ba napapasa ang hiv? pwede bang magsimula siya sa katawan ng taong  
walang virus kahit negative yung partner niya?

thanks in advance

cj

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Email 614: Questions

I had sex with prostitute 1 week ago but with condom for just 1 minute penetration. I stopped because she bleeds. Payat ang lower portion nya at bagsak ang boobs. Im not worrying on the 1-minute or shorter penetration as I used condom but my worry is yung oral sex she gave me and the blood over the condom na tinanggal ko at nagwash agad ako.

I will do the test but please enlighten me on 4 things:

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Email 425: Do I Have HIV?

Dear Pozziepinoy.

Straight girl po ako. Nabasa ko po ung mga comments and problem s site nyo about HIV. worried po ako kc may unprotected sex po ako s mga foreiners nung mga nakaraang buwan from USA and AUSTRALIAN,sabi nmn nung mga nakatalik ko healthy dw sila at may medical check up sila every month. napaka liberated ko po kc pero simula nung napanood ko ung nasa Magpakailan man about Aids natakot po ako... nag pa test n rin po ako nung may ng HIV nag non reactive nmn po kaso may mga naka sex uli ako after nun na foreiners..wala p nmn po akong signs and symtoms ngayon... possible po b n positive ako s hiv ngayon?

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Email 421: Sexual Relationships and HIV

Good Afternoon.

posible ko po ba mahawa yung present partner ko now kung nag positive ako sa hiv sa 1st screening wait ko pa kc po ung confirmatory for 2nd screening, 1yr n 4mos na po kame pero last medical exam nya for abroad nung march, db po pag mag aabroad need ng medical exam for sure po may hiv test un pero sbe nya sa akin negative siya, dapat ko pa ba syang ipa re test for sure lang po... d ko rin po alam kng pnu ko to na acquire d ko alam kng sa past ex ko, i ask all my ex (5) pero their are all ok naman... in 1yr po ba mattrace na po ba sa blood kng meron kang hiv?

Salamat po, wait ko nalang po response nu... Godbless...

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Email 418: On Touching the Seminal Fluid

hi po worry po aq ngaun. .dahl d q alam if my hiv ung bf q 2 years ago. pero wala po nangyari samin nung time na gus2 nya dahl d po q pumayag.pero nahawakan q po ung white na lumabas sa kanya.mahahawa po b q nun?

 rose

TRANSLATION

I am worried now. I don't know if my bf 2 years ago had HIV. Nothing happened between us but I touched his cum. Did I get infected?

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Email 415: Getting HIV from Pedicure?

Hi Pozziepinoy.

Can we get HIV through pedicure?

XXX

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Email 414: About Rashes and HIV Transmission

Good day sir,

First of all I am really thankful about your blog, it really helps a lot of people, Especially me, this blog opens my mind about practicing safe sex to avoid the spread of HIV.


I came across your blog because of my dilemma before, I can say that I had almost all of the symptoms relating to ARS after about 4 weeks after high risk exposure ( unprotected sex ) before, with the help of your blog, after 3 months post exposure,  I took the initiative take the test in RITM clinic, luckily its non reactive and repeat the test again after  5 1/2 weeks of exposure with also non reactive result. Since then I promised myself that I will never engage on risky sex again to people with unknown status. 

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Email 413: Scared About Her "Sexual Encounters"

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Email 402: About Kissing

Dear Pozziepinoy,

i have hiv for example and i made sex with a guy who is "negative" in hiv, i had my precum and i wipe it out and then he licked or kissed or do oral sex with my penis. is it possible for him acquire hiv? is kissing a guy can transmit hiv if you're hiv positive?

thanks.

gentleman

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Email 396: About HIV Transmission and HIV Test

hi pozzie pinoy.

I just want to ask if am still negative .I have 

my post exposure last year january 2012 I have anal sex with my friend (am the bottom) without  protection and last january 2013 I have oral sex without also protection ..I just had my hiv test last march 2013 and it came out negative..should I need to retest again? and also I want to ask if oral sex is too risky and mutual masturbation?

XXX

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Email 392: Exposure and "PLHIV Prescription"

Greetings,

Hope all is well.

I am gay, discreet, and a professional in the field of  education.  

I am an avid reader of your blog and I've been monitoring my  encounters ever since I practiced getting tested every six months at RITM Malate.

I have been an advocate of  safer sex  since I embraced this lifestyle.  Unfortunately, I had a high risk encounter  last June 24, 2013.  

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