Email 512: Can I Get HIV from Deep Kissing?
Posted by Pozziepinoy on 3:15 PM
Hi Pozziepinoy!
Gusto ko lang itanong kung kailangan ko ba
mgapatest kung ang encounter ko lang ay Deep Kising (tounge to tounge) sa isang
sex worker? may hikaw sya sa dila pero wala naman akong nalasahan na dugo o
kung meron man kahit konting dugo na nahalo sa laway nya posible ba akong ma
infect ng HIV kahit walang open wound sa mouth ko?
Thnx in advance.
TRANSLATION
Hi Pozziepinoy!
I would like to ask if I need to be tested if my only encounter is just deep kissing (tongue to tongue) with a sex worker? She/he had a tongue ring but I never tasted blood in her/his saliva. Is it possible that I got infected with HIV even when I didn't have any open wounds?
Thanks in advance.
POZZIEPINOY'S RESPONSE
Hi Pozziepinoy.
Hi there.
Thank you for your email.
Let me answer you with an article that I read in The Huffington Post written by Thomas P. Connelly, D.D.S. entitled "Can You Get HIV from Kissing". Please read the article below:
It's funny -- no matter how much information
is out there on a subject, there are plenty of people who won't read it or even
look at it, really. This isn't a bad thing, mind you -- there's only so much
time and interest we all have. For instance, the St. Louis Cardinals recently
won the World Series (and it was one heck of a series, too), and I'll bet there
are tons of non-sports fans that don't know that (and don't care).
But
it's not just sports -- it's anything. From not knowing who the vice president
is to not knowing how HIV/AIDS is (and isn't) transmitted.
I've been thinking
about this recently because (once again), as an NYC cosmetic dentist I
was asked this question from my chair: "Does kissing cause AIDS?" It
surprised me a bit, because there has been so much information about HIV
published over the last decade or two, and it's also readily available. Just
typing that question into Google will result in a myriad of links, most of them
pretty credible (like the CDC that I'll link to in a bit -- by the way, all
info from this post comes from the CDC [1]). Hence my little opening spiel
regarding information and such.
But
okay, to the question at hand: Can you get HIV/AIDS from kissing? Let's end the
suspense right away and say "generally, no, you cannot."
There
are several body fluids that can carry the HIV virus. The ones "everyday
people" are likely to come into contact with are: blood, semen, vaginal
fluid and breast milk. There are also other bodily fluids that can carry the
virus that health care workers could come into contact with, such as the fluid
around the spinal cord and the brain.
As
you can see, saliva is nowhere in that list. There is not a high enough HIV
concentration in saliva to pass along the virus.
That
said, note that I used the word "generally" previously. There's a
reason for that -- there HAVE been reports of HIV being transmitted during a
deep "French" kiss. But, and this is important -- in all cases,
bleeding was involved. In other words, it wasn't the kiss or the saliva -- it
was infected blood being exchanged. So, if you or your partner have mouth
sores, bleeding gums or something similar, and you are worried about HIV, don't
deep kiss until there is no bleeding. That should keep you safe.
In
addition to the above, HIV does not live well at all outside the body. So
you're not catching HIV from a toilet seat, etc. Just have to throw that in to
dispel that rumor.
Now
sex... that's another story. As you can see by the above, both semen and
vaginal fluid can carry the HIV virus. And both are fairly well-involved with
sexual intercourse. That's why the term "safe sex" even came about --
sex is easily the most common way to transmit or "catch" HIV. And,
despite the "homosexual sex leads to AIDS" hysteria that was rampant
a decade or two ago, heterosexual sex with an infected person is just as
dangerous. So having unprotected sex with an untested person can be risky.
Ok,
let's leave sex behind and get back to kissing. I already stated that kissing
(without blood present) will not lead to HIV infection. But how did it come
about that kissing could lead to HIV? I guess it's because so many other viral
illnesses are transmitted via saliva and vapor. Coughing and sneezing are big
ones -- you can catch a cold or flu easily this way. And, of course, kissing.
Heck, just being in a small room with someone with a bad cold can transmit the
cold via viruses traveling through the air. Ever get a "doctor's waiting
room" cold? I know I have. So we associate this type of transmission with
HIV, and just assume that it's passed on the same way. But it isn't.
Nor
is the HIV virus passed on in other minor contact, like handshakes, hugs or
similar. Even getting bit by an HIV-infected person will likely not transmit
the HIV virus, unless the biter had a mouth sore and blood to blood contact was
initiated. And no, mosquitoes aren't transmitting the HIV virus either.
So to recap this, for
a great number of us, the HIV virus is transferred via blood, or the common
sexual fluids of semen and vaginal fluid. It's not really a "kissing"
disease, or a coughing- or saliva-based infection. For those of you who were
too young to remember the '80s and early '90s, there was a LOT of hysteria and
misinformation out there regarding HIV, and some of that still lingers today.
If you are interested, or just want more peace of mind than Dr. Connelly can
give you, I encourage you to visit the link I posted with this post (here it is
again: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/transmission.htm), as it
has some really good, credible information regarding HIV and how you can (and
cannot) get it.
Until
next time, keep smiling.
(Source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/thomas-p-connelly-dds/kissing-and-hiv_b_1082254.html)
Please read these past blog entries too;
1. About Kissing
2. Abou Kissing and HIV
3. Myths About HIV
Please read these past blog entries too;
1. About Kissing
2. Abou Kissing and HIV
3. Myths About HIV
"WE
ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER.
NO PLHIV is
alone with his or her struggle with HIV!"
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