Email 451: Worried of His Kids!
Posted by Pozziepinoy on 9:08 PM
hi! isa ako sa madalas mag basa ng blog mo mag mula nung malaman kong positibo ako last june 2013 at malaki ang naitulong nito sa akin na matanggap ang katotohanan.
today, me and my wife are separated. nasa probinsya sila kasama mga anak ko at ako nandiito sa maynila.
TRANSLATION
Hi!
XXX
POZZIEPINOY’S RESPONSE
Hi XXX.
Thank you for your email. Thank you for sharing your concerns with us.
Although any kid can be exposed to tuberculosis, when it comes to you having HIV, which you think you maybe carrying even prior to your wedding, my advice would be simple yet hard. You have to tell your wife your HIV status and how you are worried about her and your kids. By this and only this can you have peace of mind, can you solve the health issues of your kids.
I know it is hard as there will be repercussions, but use your head and your heart. You know that there is a possibility that you could have infected them, and if you love your family so much, then you need to tell them the truth and subject them to the HIV test.
I know it is hard but there is no other way to know. You can have your kids get tested with your permission alone as they are still young (as under the law, HIV test can be done with a parental consent or an adult, if underage), but for me it is not right to not inform your wife about it.
I hope I was able to answer your concerns. Feel free to email me again if you have other questions.
Stay healthy,
Pozziepinoy
"WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER.
NO PLHIV is alone with his or her struggle with HIV!"
-Pozziepinoy-
If you have comments or questions, please click this link:
© Copyright. All Rights Reserved by Pozziepinoy 2012
Credits:
Image by FreeDigitalPhotos.net
Tags: HIV Manila, HIV Philippines, AIDS Manila, AIDS Philippines, HIV/AIDS Manila, HIV/AIDS Philippines
Categories: AIDS Manila, AIDS Philippines, Emails and QA, HIV in the Philippines, HIV Manila, HIV Philippines